Yesterday while orkutting [which is quite in-fashion these days and the only thing I joined b4 it goes out-fashion], I came across a community named, “I hate India”.
It reminded me of a reference on the web which says,“The origin of the word "community" comes from the Latin munus, which means the gift, and cum, which means together, among each other. So community literally means to give among each other.”
lemme guess …
okie I got it ....so nowadays we are gifting hate that is why named it over Hate
Coooooool …
It was new to me, so I hit the return key to find more on “hate India”.I found few more,”I hate India and her people”, “I hate F**king India”,“I hate the community, I hate India”, “I hate those who hate India.”
I found myself wet with the peoples’ emotions. So finally, I have found hundreds of people who really love their nation, their entity, their freedom that they have the courage to stand against a whole nation. Aha finally I have found the freedom fighters….Rebel,Patriots …..of the century???
But I could not find the motive of double pointer like “I hate those hate India”. These double pointers always make others confused. Is it counterattack, or mutual-inductive patriotism??Anyways everybody is free to express itself according to article 14; I am no one to raise any question. Infact Airtel in their ad campaign also is encouraging for freedom of expression.
Curiously, I checked few threads there to know about the people and their psychology, their complaints, intensity of hate and the message and motive for building a community on the base of hate. I came across messages full of desi-slangs which made me nostalgic about college. I found it an arena of Indo-Pak verbal war. Good finally I found that what has kept India and Pakistan kept away from using nukes on each other. Orkut.com has become the best battle field and I salute the people who are fighting with such an enthusiasm and patriotism making even soldiers shameful who are just having fun on the snow clad peaks.
Cool, really Information technology has redefined everything on the planet. Imagine, we in future may be having war with aliens also on Orkut’s verion 11Beta or something like that. Scrapbooks having scraps from both battalions:
Homo Sapiens: “Hey you Martians, we are so much in number that if we piss off at ur planet, you will be flown away in the space….you senseless creatures.”
Martians: “you bloody humans, don’t forget once this blue planet was also our part. You are living on our mercy.”
Wow!!! Wonderful …similar kind of fight but with aliens.
Some people complained that these communities are spreading message of hate. But I have different view on such things. I am not defending anybody. But building such community has at least provided a proper channel and platform where people can release their frustration, anger, dismay, hate and failure. At least they have not united together to form any terrorist associations.Atleast few more people have not been died in serial blasts or riots. I found the threads full of abusive language and slang. In an internet article on slang psychology; I read that most of the slangs originated from jails. Can you think why???Yeah it were the same people who were kept behind bars and given emotional, psychological and physical torture. While seeing profiles of the people at these communities, either these people are full of time and nothing to do or they have witnessed some kind of ill treatment by conditions, people, religion or the system.
And now they are yelling at such forums so that others can listen to their crap which is totally not related to whole mass. They suffered due to single entity but now blaming the whole system and making it responsible for their disaster. And I think they will stop raising their voices as soon as they are done with their so called “cyber-revenge “or “cyber-zehad”.
In fact I myself many times have yelled all “Maa-Bhen” chants when got frustrated waiting in any queue or system failure. Many times I myself have abused the whole administrative system due to rudeness and ego of “sarkari babus and clerks “.
Now if we talk about” Hate India”,” Love India” or “hate Pakistan”, I will say that I m not hurting anybody’s emotion but please let me know how do you define Your India or Your Pakistan. India is not 100 crore people, its not only old civilization, historic monuments, Rivers, Himalayas, Ayurvedas, Temples, churches, mazjids, mixes-ins of cultures , Curries , cuisines. It’s not only Corrupted System, its world’s largest software market along with BPO also. It has millions of ingredients, it's not a single entity. Similarly for Pakistan, it’s not only ISI or their spinners or terrorist training camps but a lot of beautiful things. So hating India means one just hates to keep its ego at the peak neglecting the beauty of all those millions of its ingredients. I too love my nation but I don’t need to prove it. Its in my thought, flowing in my veins. But it’s really true that I hate few of its rotten things and love a lots of others.Better to find out that entity which has aroused those strong emotion of hate or love instead of the whole nation or group.
Finally I strongly believe only love can be spread. Hate is so inflammatory, that the carrier itself can’t carry it longer, to pass it on to others.Ok enough gyan!!! Meanwhile you can explore other dimensions and reasons of such cyber psychologies. Here is another link
http://www.rider.edu/suler/psycyber/badboys.html
and then for another interesting orkut war
Avinish Vs Ranjana-D Orkut war
Hey, I have found Riya on orkut, my school friend till 10th standard. She used to be gorgeous. Okie bye..lemme do some scrapping !!! njoi :)
7 comments:
its gud !!!!
well..it is a preachy topic for sure..but let Indians first have a community on what they have done for India rather than just hating India for any stupid reason in which they have a part to play too ;)
Yaar, I think its so pathetic that ppl havent even spared Orkut, to spit their fury & frustration, on to others.
From papers to TV to WWW and now Orkut, this animosity & hatred has made its way literally into every part of our lives now.Where are we heading? Even before the dust of one act of terrorism settles, that of another one covers the sky and makes things murkier. In such conditions, I think orkut was one thing that provided some solace to our paranoic souls...it was a way we could catch up with old pals[make some new ones too ;)], reminisce some sweet memories and create some new ones..but alas...! Hatred, anger and frustration takes over Orkut too..!
In this cyber-age where internet is much more than just a means of communication, "Forums" like ORKUT have a huge responsibility to shoulder. I think Orkut is being irresponsible if it is not banning such malicious comm's...! Afterall the purpose of Orkut is not what such ppl are using it for. Who knows one of these communities is being run by one of the new age tech savvy members of Al-Q or LeT or whatever..!
Finally, I think the idea of "Freedom" (of whatever kind) is probably the most misinterpreted and misused one. In our pursuit to exercise our freedom, we infringe other ppl's freedom and hurt them physically, emotionally & morally...! We better understand what Freedom is...more so, that of Expression, 'coz the wounds of weapons, leave marks on ur body, but those of words, leave indelible marks on ur mind...!!
Mr Büyükkökten has created a beautiful thing, lets keep it beautiful...!!
I liked it.
@ankur
Well said changi..
i really appreciate the dimensions u explored abt it which i missed.Yeha orkut have a responsibility abt such forums but its really a tuff job to locate such forums and create a demarcating line of morality..becoz its relative.
but still lets keep orkut beautiful.
@surieal
Suri dear, i liked ur attitude man!!lets do smthing for india b4 anything else.
good one ashwani.. :)But guess we are just plain incorrigible.. We feed as a parasite on anything & everything we can get a hold on.. whether its our environment, our rights, freedom, trust, love.. lets see if we realize it before we loose all of it..
Yes very true that hate is not a salubrious emotion... but then if it exists, it does!! Probably as you said Orkut does this "venting-out" role... probably cyber-revenge is better if it remains in the fortification of this cyber world.... Whatever be it, Orkut rocks!! and I completely love it!!
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